Trust
MelbournePhilosopher
What is trust, and what does it mean? Trust breaks down into several other concepts - most obviously responsibility, reliability, honesty, love and faith. It can be used in the context of a statement - I trust you, in the context of an relationship - I am trusting you, or as an action - to trust. Linked with trust is betrayal - the destruction of trust.
A man was offered a job verbally, but had no contract. The job was later withdrawn without notice. Was this an unfair betrayal of trust, or the consequence of foolishness? Both are probably true.
Our understanding of trust starts at the primitive level. We love and trust our parents, and it is from this behaviourist mechanism that we first begin to understand trust. The first time that someone lies to us, we start to learn that there is a difference between what someone claims and what they will do. Trust is what we feel when we comfortably rely on people to act in a particular way. To trust someone is ambiguous - it can mean putting ourselves in a position of reliance, hence the phrase "an uneasy trust". Yet it can also mean to become comfortable with relying on someone - as in "I used to worry about person X, but then I began to trust them."
In philosophy, trust is usually presented as a virtue, but not always. Ayn Rand puts forward the view that the best society has no need to rely on trust - if everything is based on contracts and payment, the breaking of an agreement has its costs fully incorporated into the system - that is to say one cannot betray without cost. Arguably, the same thing is said by all philosophies - however cost ceases to be a financial one and becomes a moral cost. Ayn Rand advances her position because she believes that financial transactions can transcend the difficulties of moral relativism. If you and I have different ideals of trust, it is likely that one of us will end up being disappointed even if we are true to ourselves. (I am interpreting her philosophy here, not simply paraphrasing)
The major difficulty with this position is that is pays no respect to the emotive nature of trust. Trust is a useful mechanism for social efficiency - if we can rely on someone we make a saving because we do not need to establish terms and conditions every time we interact. The presentation of trust as a virtue is usually concerned with the idea that being trustworthy is a virtue. Putting yourself in the position of trusting someone, however, can be either wise or unwise.
A Western Judeo-Christian philosophy would say that one must first trust in God, and then be faithful to oneself. Many non-Christian religious philosophies also put forward this view - it is a recurring theme in Buddhism and Toltec beliefs, for example. The Christian ideal could be seen as resulting from the ultimate faith placed in humanity by God, to which we all owe a duty of faith. To their belief, simply living comes with the right to God's word, and the responsibility to try to live faithfully. A feeling of trust towards ones fellow man is then the happy consequence of being trustworthy. We must also forgive betrayals of trust, because all men are capable of sin, and later we ourselves may also require forgiveness. The Bible tells us "Love always trusts".
The current Dalai Lama has written several books, all of which emphasise the practical benefits of being trustworthy oneself. He advances the idea that we are happier when we are trustworthy, because trustworthyness engenders feelings of love in others, and allows us to respect ourselves. These sentiments are echoed in the Toltec belief system also.
Practically, we find in our relations with others that trust must be earned. We don't precisely fear the betrayal of all we meet, but it is only after a period of time that be become truly comfortable relying on the behaviour of others - perhaps as we come to love them. Inextricably, issues of trust are tied to issues of power and its abuse. One may love unconditionally, but it is usually those who we have a relationship who are the target of our bitter feelings. I will follow up this entry with a later discussion on the forms which trusting relationships take in our society.
All the best,
-MP

